As far as I could remember, January meant one thing and one thing only - resolutions. It was a time for me to set the tone for the year by creating big audacious goals and committing to them, no matter what. It takes 21 days to create a habit, I reasoned, so I just had to stick to this for 21 days and the rest of the year I could coast off the hard work.
As we begin to go on our inner healing journey, however, we start to receive messages that you are enough, that you don’t need become a new person, that resolutions don’t work and what you need is self-compassion.
While that message can feel like a relief, it also offers a bit of inner conflict. Does feeling worthy mean we are not allowed to want to grow and change? And if both things are possible, then how do we endeavor to become better while honoring that we are enough?