feeling like you are too much and feeling like you are not enough are the opposite sides of the same coin.
that coin is the worthiness wound™.
No one doubts the importance of claiming our worth as women in the world.
In fact, you will most likely find the word "self-worth" in every self-development and spiritual book written. It's the bedrock of our confidence and of our ability to take up space and express ourselves. It's the first thing that seems to go when life gets hard and it's the most elusive thing to find when we are climbing our way to the top.
We all have a sense of what unworthiness is... we have it even before we know we have it. But no one seems to be able to articulate why we have it and why we can't just shake it off.
Is it as simple as to say that unworthiness is part of the life experience? That the fact that everyone has it means that we just have to live with it and deal with it the best that we can?
Maybe unworthiness isn't important to address... if even "successful" women, as defined by our society, can make money and have big careers while carrying around their unworthiness, maybe we can too.
What I have found, however, is that women who don't spend time cultivating and reintegrating their worth find themselves walking around feeling like they are living a shallow version of themselves. They can't seem to truly enjoy their lives. They long for spontaneous joy and greater freedom.
We must all go through the heroine's journey of reconditioning ourselves back to a space of worth if we want any chance of liberation.
That is where my work comes in.
My name is Thaís Sky and I am known as an expert on healing the worthiness wound. I am a trauma informed life coach, teacher and speaker. For the past ten years I have become fascinated by this wounded space within us that tells we are both not enough, and too much. Through working with hundreds of women worldwide, extensive research into trauma, depth psychology and relational healing, and my own experience, I decided to call this painful wound the worthiness wound and I have created a framework to guide any woman, no matter her past, to heal the worthiness wound and take up greater space in her life.
